gtopia

Hola,

Letting go of things, people and ideas can be difficult but necessary at times.

Sometime ago, I let go of a relationship that was with some one I considered one of the closest people in my life. It was hard and I feel the loss every day. We were both affected by the car accident that killed my mother and Aunt.

Letting go is hard. I've let go of a lot of people in my life because my self-esteem  has grown over the years. As you grow your tolerance for less is no longer there. The "I deserve better" comes in and you no longer need people or stories that make you feel less than who and what you have become.

I've also let go of old stories that I played over and over in my head for years. My stories are always the hardest because they kept me where I was. Now with new stories will take me to a new and sometimes an  uncomfortable place....making me feel vulnerable. Nothing wrong with being vulnerable. It means I am open and have my armor down and new things can come into my life.

New things can be scary because they can make us uncomfortable because they aren't familiar. Creating anything new in your life will make you uncomfortable. It will also open you up to new possibilities and give you compacity to grow.

Creating boundaries can ease the blow of feeling vulnerable. Letting go out of your comfort zone with clear set of boundaries will open you up to yourself in a more beautiful way. You will no longer be your limiting stories but a vessel of bright new ones.

Love and Peace!

Ginamarie